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The Truth About Emotional Weapons After an Affair
After an affair, emotional survival modes like shutting down, snapping, or pulling away can take over. These “emotional weapons” are protective but also create deeper disconnection. Healing begins when we gently lay them down and choose new ways of relating—with ourselves and our partners.

Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Jul 312 min read


Thoughts on the Coldplay kiss‑cam scandal …
If the Coldplay kiss-cam scandal stirred something in you, you're not alone. For those healing after infidelity, public betrayals can reopen deep wounds. While others mock or judge, you're doing brave, tender work. You are not weak — you’re courageous. If you're feeling triggered, step away from the noise. And if you’re ready for real, compassionate support, we’re here.

Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Jul 243 min read


Feeling Conflicted After Betrayal?
Healing after an affair is a messy, emotional journey – filled with pain, hope, anger, and longing. There’s no right way to move forward, but if you're here, it means part of you believes in the possibility of rebuilding. At Reimagine Love, we guide couples through recovery with compassion and clarity, helping both partners heal together. Even after betrayal, renewal is possible.

Shawn Haywood, PhRD
May 142 min read


How to Navigate the Holidays When You're Healing from an Affair
If you're ready to truly heal from the affair— not just get through this holiday, but thrive in future ones — support is available.

Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Apr 174 min read


The Hypervigilant Brain After Infidelity
Affairs don’t just shake relationships — they can shake your identity.

Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Mar 313 min read


Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal—Without the Exhaustion & Anxiety
What you’re feeling is a normal response to broken trust. When your world has been turned upside down after an affair, discover how to heal.

Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Mar 32 min read


When Betrayal Breaks Your Heart, Where Do You Go from Here?
When betrayal from an affair breaks your heart, where do you go from here, how do you heal?

Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Jan 243 min read


Finding Peace When Your Heart Feels Torn After an Affair
Finding peace when your heart feels torn after an affair

Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Jan 172 min read


Your Brain After an Affair
Your brain after an affair, how to end hypervigilance and fully HEAL after The Affair.

Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Jan 103 min read
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