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Your Brain After an Affair
Your brain after an affair, how to end hypervigilance and fully HEAL after The Affair.
Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Jan 103 min read
When trying hard isn’t enough
The desire to be better and feel better is there. But without proper support & tools, trying hard will only lead to surface-level healing.
Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Dec 17, 20243 min read
Are you one of the rare ones?
If it has been more than a year since the affair, I am guessing that some days are good – great even!
Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Nov 20, 20243 min read
How to stop neverending thoughts of the affair.
Wouldn’t it feel awesome to know that the work you are putting in is actually working to help you calm your mind?
Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Nov 1, 20243 min read
Therapy vs Strategy in Affair Recovery
Wondering how what we do at Reimagine Love is different from traditional marriage counselling?
Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Oct 8, 20243 min read
How To STOP the Fights You’re Sick & Tired of Having
You've thought to yourself countless times, I'm just so sick of having this same damn argument about _____ (money, commitment, working...
Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Sep 7, 202010 min read
Nothing Like New Love!
Recently, some of our family met us in Crested Butte for some much needed RnR. It was lovely! We went on hikes, played games, cooked ...
Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Jul 31, 20205 min read
Before & After Quarantine: Working Towards A Bullet Proof Marriage
Chris and I have finally landed in one of our favorite slices of Heaven on this earth right in the midst of wildflower season. We will be...
Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Jul 2, 20204 min read
3 Relationship Mistakes That Trip Women Up!
Ladies are socialized and programmed to believe a LOT of false ideas about relationships. Let's try to break down a few common mistakes that
Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Jul 24, 20195 min read
Feel Emotionally Free: 1 Surprising Secret to Taking Back Your Power
One of the biggest challenges I see in relationships (was true for me as well) is an aversion to taking RADICAL SELF RESPONSIBILITY for one'
Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Jun 18, 20195 min read
What To Do When Your Relationship Goals Get Off Track?
We all have the ability to set up OUR life - love - business or career in ways that totally support the values, goals, adventure...
Shawn Haywood, PhRD
May 28, 20195 min read
How To STOP the Fights You’re Sick & Tired of Having
Has this thought occurred to you more times than you'd like to admit, "I am so sick of having the same dead end argument about _____...
Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Apr 15, 201912 min read
Couples In Business Success Secrets- Clarity Reigns Supreme!
One of the biggest problems in relationships where couples live, work and (hopefully) play together on a daily basis, is a lack of...
Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Mar 24, 20196 min read
Attention MEN: 3 Ways To Get Your Lady In “The Mood”
It’s the age old tale of men wanting 100 times the amount of sex as their lady counter-parts (well, in most relationships anyway)! I mean...
Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Jan 23, 20194 min read
3 Ways To Cultivate Emotional Safety In Your Relationship (or Family)
In my ‘old life’, I was a real stinker! I used to be the kind of person who would argue long and with plenty of sass and fire for the...
Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Jan 7, 20195 min read
7 Things Incredibly Strong & Happy Couples Do Differently
Would you consider your relationship incredibly strong and happy? Participating in the following activities is a good indication that it...
Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Dec 20, 20185 min read
3 Ways To Own Your Sh** & Create Peace, Trust & Joy In You Love Life!
I am about to make a big claim! Prepare yourself… Most arguments stem from the refusal to own (or take) responsibility for one’s own...
Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Nov 25, 20185 min read
3 HUGE Relationship Myths MEN Fall Prey To
Ladies fall prey to fairytales and Prince Charming myths! Men fall prey to 'other, less known myths'! In the world of marriage,...
Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Oct 30, 20187 min read
Waning Sex-Drive? Afraid You May Be Falling Out Of Love?
Do you seem to be desiring less and less sex in your relationship? Even wondering if this waning sex drive means you might be ‘falling...
Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Oct 8, 20187 min read
3 Relationship Myths Women Fall Prey To!
When I was younger and in past relationships, there were tons of seemingly ‘insignificant’ myths I fell prey to. Unfortunately, one myth...
Shawn Haywood, PhRD
Sep 20, 20184 min read
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