A 45-minute call that changes this week
- Shawn Haywood, PhRD

- Nov 25
- 2 min read

When betrayal hits, life can feel like shattered glass—loud, messy, impossible to ignore.
Most women I meet do what you might be doing now: hold it together at work, cry in the shower, Google at 2am. And the same thoughts loop on repeat:
It’s too soon. I’m in shock.
He should be the one fixing this.
Therapy didn’t help before.
I don’t want to relive every detail.
What if I can’t ever trust again?
Can we afford to go through this process?
STOP
Take a breath.
Take another breath... slower this time…
You don’t have to decide the entire future of your marriage today. You only need the next right step—and that’s what a Breakthrough Call gives you.
What happens on the call (45 minutes, no pressure):
Stabilize the storm – learn what your nervous system is doing after betrayal and get two micro-tools to sleep tonight.
Clarify your 30-day goal – repair, separation clarity, or simply stopping the spirals. No forever decisions required.
Map a simple plan – safety boundaries, trust-rebuild protocols (what he does daily/weekly), and a conversation script that ends in calm—not explosions.
Ownership without over-functioning – if he’s willing, great; if he’s not, you still move forward with peace and protection.
Right-sized next steps – tangible actions for this week, and this month, not a vague, expensive “forever” plan.
Coming solo? Perfect. Your healing doesn’t wait for his perfect readiness. If he decides to join later, we fold him in seamlessly.
Coming as a couple? You’ll leave with a 7-day reconnection plan for the 2 of you and plan for calming your brain/body/nervous system over 30 days.
👉 Book Your Breakthrough Call » No reliving every detail. No shaming. Relief and a plan—today.
You’re not committing to a lifetime. You’re choosing the next right step that reduces pain now and structures whatever future you choose.


About Dr. Shawn Haywood
Dr. Shawn Haywood is the founder of Reimagine Love. She is a classically trained therapist, as well as a life and marriage coach, who loves to work with women and couples to help them heal fully after an affair. Over the past 25 years, she has helped thousands of women move from the cycle of disconnect to one of unbreakable love and connection, while healing fully after infidelity, in a fraction of the time of traditional marriage counseling.
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