”We had already filed for divorce when we began Dr. Haywood’s course. Ultimately, we did not see the divorce through- thank goodness! We had grown so tired of the struggle, the fighting, the not feeling heard or understood, not being on the same page- and done with the hurt and pain we were causing each other. We still had love but had run out of hope...

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But, we decided to try one time… And to our complete surprise and unbelievable joy, we were able to turn things around --in a BIG way. At each step, it became clear that divorce was not what either of us wanted. 

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In such a short time, we learned to actually listen, truly listen and hear one another with calmness and love, without getting TRIGGERED. We now actually solve problems AS THEY COME UP- without fighting! In the end, we learned and applied multiple life and marriage-changing tools! "

"Loren and I have been together for 13 years and have changed A LOT. We fell into some pretty unhealthy relationship patterns and didn't know what to do about it for many years. We hoped there was a better way, a way with less friction and frustration, and more happiness, but we couldn't find it on our own. 

 

Transformation is a BIG word. But it's the best description for the couple's work we did with Shawn. I can honestly say that we have never grown so much in such a short time. Our marriage has taken a major quantum leap forward! Even "ordinary" days feel so amazing, loving, and peaceful. 

 

We're feeling SO in love and positive for the future. The tools Shawn taught us to propel us forward and keep us deeply connected to each other are outstanding. 

 

And now, several months later, everything continues to improve at a beautiful, steady pace. Shawn gave us the best present anyone could ever ask for - a stronger relationship with the person I've chosen as my partner for this crazy roller coaster called life".

"What a transformation-- going from no longer living together, to being more in love than ever, is beyond description- Shawn, you totally changed our lives.

 

Learning to speak my heart, ask clearly for what I want and need, and love my partner in ways that make him want to do absolutely anything for me- including being vulnerable, helpful, and playful- has totally changed everything!

 

Now, after 15 years together, we talk for hours (like we did in the beginning), have so much fun, and are always up for spending more time together."

"Shawn is simply brilliant.  Within 5 minutes of being on our call, my husband said, 'Man she knows her stuff, glad we are here!'.  We learned how to come together behind a unified vision and to follow something better in our relationship than, “he’s right/she’s right”.  

 

Shawn’s work is nothing short of a necessity for all couples.  I know that I’m trying to get every couple I know into her classes.  This material should be mandatory.  It’s way better than couples therapy or retreats because it goes under the surface into principles that really work."