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Wouldn't It Be SO GREAT To Powerfully Communicate About Anything With Your Sweetie (money, sex, intimacy, parenting, time together) Without Conflict?

INTRODUCING…

Revive Your Relationship

The "How To" Guide to Communicate Easily With Your Spouse

Your Step-by-Step System to Communicate With Your Spouse to SOLVE PROBLEMS PERMANENTLY.

My Story...

For the first several years of our relationship and marriage, Chris and I had this dreaded cycle of conflict that looked something like this:

 

I would get angry at Chris for something (not helping me enough around the house, not listening, spending too much time riding his bike, etc.) and complain at him (or scold him…) in a harsh or shaming way.

 

Chris would then shut down, barely saying anything at all.

 

I would then become more angry, feeling like he was shutting me out, avoiding having tough discussions, or simply ignoring me- this felt infuriating…

 

So, I would verbally beat him up more…

 

He would then shut down completely and begin staring at me like a deer in headlights.

 

Next, I would get so overwhelmed and frustrated that I would shut down…

 

At which point, Chirs would start “trying” very hard. He would maybe start cleaning up the house, ask me if I needed anything, say sweet things, and so on.

 

This, in turn, triggered more anger immediately because I thought that he just wanted me to forget about the problems, pretend nothing was wrong and move on. I felt dismissed and alone.

 

And finally… some 2-5 hours later I would soften, we would brush the “situation” under the rug and go on with our day or evening…

 

BUT ALMOST NEVER ACTUALLY SOLVING THE PROBLEMS THAT EXISTED IN OUR MARRIAGE THAT WERE DRIVING BIGGER AND BIGGER WEDGES BETWEEN US.

 

This was an excruciating, exhausting, and hugely defeating cycle. And what’s more, we engaged this cycle multiple times each week to one degree or another...

 

But, we still wanted to make our marriage work… But we didn’t want to be frustrated, upset, hurt, and to continue feeling so disconnected and NOT on the same page! 

We tried traditional couples therapy, individual therapy, we read dozens of books, listened to podcasts, and chatted with friends and family, who’s unfortunate advice was generally the same and when something like this: “yeah, we struggle with these same kinds of problems, it’s just part of being married I guess.”

 

Ugh… 

 

Like SO many of you, we tried and tried, and tried some more. We really loved each other and wanted our relationship to work- but we were feeling increasingly frustrated and defeated and at a loss for what else to try and felt the end looming in the distance.

And then we crafted our OWN solution. It took us a great deal of trial and error, over 100 books, thousands of dollars of coaching programs, and a ton of communication to land on solutions that ACTUALLY AND COMPLETELY TRANSFORMED OUR MARRIAGE - and then hundreds of other clients marriages and relationships.

 

Imagine... not having the same cycles of conflict… and actually solving problems permanently. 

 

For several years now, Chris and I have become virtually conflict-free. We literally used the right tools, and developed the right skills, and just outgrew the need for conflict.

 

We have more passion, intimacy, connection, and depth than either of us knew was possible. We didn’t see very good relationships modeled while growing up, so we honestly were very surprised that the harmony, closeness, and happiness that we were able to create together.

Imagine...

  • LETTING GO OF bickering, arguing, or upset about the same 10-15 things you fight about on a weekly or monthly basis.

  • Having ABSOLUTELY any conversation about careers, sex, finances, kids, and getting on the same page - WITHOUT FEAR & WITHOUT FIGHTING.

  • Being able to strategize CALMLY & CONFIDENTLY about anything from finances to sex, to home chores, to careers.

  • JOYFUL & PLAYFUL planning- together, so that you can function and feel like a collaborative team because you've learned to be on the same page; and ACCEPT each other and come to EFFECTIVE AND PEACEFUL solutions, even when you do not align or agree!

  • Having the ability to look out at the next 12 months and know there is a PLAN of action & simplistic ways to define success & make decisions so that you can become BULLET-PROOF together!

Sound too good to be true?

That's what I used to think- And so did my clients!

BUT, IT IS 100% POSSIBLE

 

You and your partner can COME TOGETHER as a united team when you understand emotional weapons, lay them down, and pick up 4 skills that completely change the way you and your partner communicate and deal with struggle.

What if you could COMMUNICATE about anything with your sweetie (money, sex, intimacy, parenting, time together) without fighting?

Maybe you’re feeling this way: 

 

  • Your relationship priorities have gotten off track, and there is a serious lack of teamwork, collaboration, and connection- while feelings of loneliness and frustration have taken root.

  • You're fighting too much, feeling resentful, and easily aggravated at your partner.

  • Conflict over kids, finances, work, house-hold priorities, sex, and even day-to-day pet peeves have become easy sources of upset and drama.

  • You don't spend joyful, playful, and connected time talking, daydreaming, and scheming about your life and future together...

  • You might even be contemplating or discussing divorce, feeling like maybe this relationship is a lost cause.

I PROMISE YOU, ALL OF THIS, AND MORE CAN BE TURNED AROUND.

YOU JUST NEED A FEW TOOLS, USED THE RIGHT WAYS!

Sound too good to be true?

That's what I used to think- And so did my clients!

BUT, IT IS 100% POSSIBLE

 

You and your partner can COME TOGETHER as a united team when you understand emotional weapons, lay them down, and pick up 4 skills that completely change the way you and your partner communicate and deal with struggle.

"My husband and I used to bicker way too much, big fights would only happen a couple of times per month, but the daily back and forth biting and bickering was so exhausting. We tried so many things to help us communicate better- books, podcasts, therapy- everything. But, Revive Your Relationship taught us so many great communication skills and how to lay down our emotional weapons so that we could not only stop all the bickering and fighting but also get way more of our needs and wants to be met by one another." Minnie D.

ARE YOU READY TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP SING TOO!

No matter where your relationship is…

No matter how frustrated you might currently feel…

If you are already on divorce's door...

OR, you're just looking for a fresh set of tools to take your relationship to the next level...

I want you to know this…

THERE IS A PROVEN METHOD TO BUILD A ROCK SOLID, TRULY GREAT RELATIONSHIP: AND IT CAN BEGIN RIGHT NOW...

Revive Your Relationship

The "How To" Guide to Communicate Easily With Your Spouse

 

Your Step-by-Step System to Communicate With Your Spouse to ACTUALLY SOLVE PROBLEMS PERMANENTLY.

6 Weeks To Powerful Communication, Connection, Trust & Renewed Happiness!
YOUR OPPORTUNITY TO CARVE OUT AN INTENTIONAL PATH TO NAVIGATE YOUR RELATIONSHIP SO THAT YOU CAN GET MORE OF WHAT YOU WANT AND NEED WITHOUT ALL THE HASSLE & FUSS!

”We had already filed for divorce when we began Dr. Haywood’s course. Ultimately, we did not see the divorce through- thank goodness! We had grown so tired of the struggle, the fighting, the not feeling heard or understood, not being on the same page- and done with the hurt and pain we were causing each other. We still had love, but had run out of hope...

But, we decided to try one time… And to our complete surprise and unbelievable joy, we were able to turn things around --in a BIG way. At each step, it became clear that divorse was not what either of us wanted. 

In such a short time, we learned to actually listen, truly listen and hear one another with calmness and love, without getting TRIGGERED. We now actually solve problems AS THEY COME UP- without fighting! In the end, we learned and applied multiple life and marriage changing tools! " 

- Michelle & Chris Cassel

6-WEEK PROGRAM DETAILS...

This is a unique, one of a kind program that includes modules for the individual and for the relationship. Each week includes “self” videos & “couples” videos. This way you learn how to apply all the tools individually and together! 

Discover specifically what a successful relationship looks like for you and your partner- what it includes and what it excludes. Then develop a direct path to get there

Learn how to make any change (big or small) sustainable so that the changes and shifts you and your sweetie invest time in, can STICK - PERMANENTLY!

PROGRAM MODULES...

BONUS KICK OFF MODULE

RADICAL SELF RESPONSIBILITY SETS THE STAGE FOR A BULLET-PROOF RELATIONSHIP

Module 1.

SETTING A COURSE FOR A SUCCESS-ONLY RELATIONSHIP 

Module 2.

SETTING UP FOR, POSITIVE, POWERFUL, AND SUSTAINABLE CHANGE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Module 3.

 LAY DOWN YOUR EMOTIONAL WEAPONS TO COMMUNICATE ABOUT ANYTHING WITHOUT CONFLICT!

Module 4.

STAY IN YOUR OWN LANE SO YOU DON'T CRASH HEAD ON! 

Module 5.

 4 STEPS TO COMMUNICATE ABOUT ANYTHING AS A TEAM

Module 6.

BALANCING AND HEALING SEX, SEXUAL DESIRE, AND INTIMACY --- AND FEELING WHOLE IN ALL THINGS SEX  

BONUS MODULE 

12 MONTH PLAN TO STAY ON TRACK AND KEEP PROGRESSING POWERFULLY

I took the same system I teach my private clients during their customized retreats and individual coaching – who have made major breakthroughs in their relationships – and turned it into a 6-WEEK course to help you and your partner set a course for success!

WHAT'S INCLUDED...

  • 6 Weeks of Video Modules: each week builds upon the next to guide you and your partner toward success 

  • Step-By-Step Worksheets & Checklists: to guide you each step of the way. We know your time is limited. We know you don’t want to spend time doing anything you’re not supposed to be doing. That’s what tried-and-true checklists are for, to keep you on track. 

  • Weekly Q&A Calls with Dr. Haywood: here you will bring your questions and receive specific one on one caching for any area of need between you and your sweetie

  • 2 Bonus Modules: the first is a kickstart module to get you started off on the right foot and a second module at the end of the course to support you and your partner in planning for the next 6 months to ensure you continue on the path you have so strongly, courageously and lovingly embarked upon together!

  • Lifetime Access To The Course: as the course evolves over time, you will always have access to the latest material

FREE BONUSES WHEN YOU REGISTER BY FEB 12, MIDNIGHT
 

REVIVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP

MAKE YOUR RISK-FREE INVESTMENT TODAY.

Investment:

$1499 (per couple)

Early bird: $999 Until Midnight, Feb 12

WHEN & WHERE?

Online

Classes are recorded for your convenience!

CONTACT US FOR QUESTIONS: 

drhaywood@reimaginelove.com

I want you to be MORE than satisfied with the information delivered in this training. SO I’m giving you a 7 day period  to receive a refund from the date of your first class. If for some reason this training doesn’t meet your expectations, we’ll send you a questionnaire to prove that you attended the classes and will require a detailed, written reason why the training didn't meet your expectations. Assuming you answer the questions by the end of day, of day 7 of  your start date, you have my word, we will refund you in full!

I PROMISE, anything is possible. I have seen more relationship magic & miracles then you can possibly imagine!

BONUS #1

Unlimited email coaching with our team so that you can move through the 6-week course and get ALL your questions answered so that you can solve your key relationship problems efficiently. $999 Value: For the first 5 sign-ups ONLY!

BONUS #2

2 key relationship problem-solving sessions to ensure you ELIMINATE the key relationship problems for each partner + pre-session planning templates

$1999 Value

BONUS #3

1 couples planning session for first 10 sign ups

$450 Value

BONUS #4

50 Fresh Dates Checklist: as the years build-up, it can become difficult to keep dating your spouse  to bring fresh connection time for you and your sweetie:

$49 Value

HERE IS WHAT A COUPLE RAVING FANS HAVE TO SAY...

 

"Understanding how to lay down my emotional weapons and communicate in ways that are kind, loving, and seriously effective, has completely changed the way we communicate and has changed our marriage in fantastic ways! My wife and I feel close and connected and like we can talk about anything without walking on eggshells and being afraid. What a difference this course made in our lives (PS, it has also been super helpful in communicating with our kids!)"

- Matt Amstutz, MA, BCBA, Clinical Director at IABAI, Executive Director of Fort 4 Autism

"Mike and I hit the toughest time in our marriage when we started a business together. But, we found Shawn and literally, everything has changed in powerful and profound ways! Shawn is such a gifted Relationship coach and has helped us grow exponentially in our businesses and in our wonderful relationship. We were completely blown away by how much we've accomplished and how much we have grown during our time working with Shawn. We cannot thank you enough Shawn!" 

- Mike Stoudt & Heidi Rew, Voice Over & On-Air Talent + Owners of Atlanta Voice Over Studio

WHAT WOULD IT BE WORTH TO YOU TO: 

  • Create a partnership where you feel COMPLETELY supported, heard and cared for, AND valued
  • COMMUNICATE about ABSOLUTELY ANYTHING without arguing (and no, not just ignoring or pretending- but eliminating it so you can feel calm and connected)
  • Grow UNWAVERING trust, connection and emotional safety, so that you feel like you really belong together
  • Create a FIGHT-FREE relationship (anyone can, you just haven't learned how), while at the same time, growing more passion than you knew was possible
  • Get on the SAME page in all facets of your life together, so that making any decision is effortless
  • Become UNBREAKABLE together for a lifetime!

Cheers to you friends. Good luck in all of your endeavors. Be happy. Love with all of your heart- even when you don't feel like it!

Dr. Shawn Haywood